The Good Men project seems to be a decent place. I used to go camping regularly with some buddies, and later spent time with a bunch of guys out on a ranch in California. I personally believe men need structure, and to be honest a lot of men’s structure in the past came from fraternal organizations, that have since either dissolved (such as the boy scouts) or integrated (such as the military). And integration of public services is certainly not bad, except that today young men have few places to turn, to be around their own. Which makes toxic communities all the more tempting.