Men DO care very deeply. Unfortunately there are female narcissists who poison the well. So an empathetic, reasonably successful man will feel the vultures gouging out his eyes and robbing his bank account. Speaking from experience here, and I am no red pill'er but "Men Going Their Own Way" is a lot better of an option than what many of my male friends are enduring at the present time.
There are exceptions, loving couples who stand the test of time. I am still holding out hope for this possibility. Unfortunately, the system is set up to make the chances of that very minimal.