"I just want to meet a nice human being....is that too much to ask??"

No, certainly not. Some of us men are truly nice and kind (and not passive-aggressive) human beings. But is that truly all you are seeking?

There is nothing wrong with having standards. I have mine: single, spiritually compatible, healthy, supportive of my ambitions, not too much older, and reasonably attractive to me. I try to offer a lot in return. But it is still difficult to find a compatible match. (I have my own bottom-of-the-barrel stories, believe me)

I respect your choices to wait for the right person, and wish you luck finding someone who can and will fulfill your heart.