I don't know what you are getting at now, so I will sum up my opinions:

- You are entitled to your opinions, and must make your own rules and decisions.

- For the rest of us, 1/2 + 7 is bullshit and of no use whatsoever.

- The only rules that matter are 18, and consent. Everything else is dessert.

- Social enforcement is everything wrong with today's social media and cancel culture. We have things called laws. If I don't break the law, and I don't affect you directly, then what I do and who I do it with is none of your business.

- Again: emotional manipulation can happen at any age. Age gap is irrelevant. You might as well say people should not be allowed to wear green, since people wearing green can inflict emotional manipulation on those who don't. Your argument carries the same merit.