I agree with this article entirely.

My 2c (from somebody who used to feel sexually frustrated, did NOT use PUA techniques, and anything resembling frustration now feels like a lifetime ago):

- Live. Accumulate life experience. Travel the world when you can.

- Resolve any mommy issues.

- Get financially grounded.

- Accomplish things that you feel inwardly proud of, even if nobody else does. (I ran a marathon after growing up endurance-challenged)

- Invest in your long-term friendships.

Shit works.