At our best...we (men) keep each other in line and in integrity - including all of the ways you very beautifully describe.

Unfortunately, there are very few structures set up today where badly behaved men respect and follow guidance from kind, caring, and I'll say strong men. And I think this is what we need, if there is going to be real change.

And yes just as important, is women's support and insistence for us to be what we should be.