John
Oct 18, 2021

1, 3, 5, 10, and especially 11, yes.

2, 6, and 8, no these are not reasons why men won't cheat.

"Good Men Never Cheat" is not true. I've never cheated on a partner, but once came very close. I wasn't getting my needs met, and met someone who was more than willing to give me what I needed. I had enough willpower to break away, but my then-partner communicated very clearly she was not going to help me in this regard. So I broke up with her.

Had I stayed, I absolutely would have cheated; not because I wasn't a "Good Man," but I'm a biological human and self-denial never works: it WILL come out in some way: alcohol, infidelity, anger, or a channel more disturbing.

John
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